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Goddess Ganga Devi who drowned her babies (Karmic thoughts on Miscarriages)

Miscarriages or Abortions are no easy emotional matters for any mother-to-be, and husband or partners involved – no matter how trivial some circumstances might seem on the surface! In this blog post, it is not my intention to play down the depths or impacts of it. While some religious groups are 100% against abortions, others are forced by circumstances to reach such a momentous and painful decision in their lives – to abort their unborn baby. It may even seem casual or carefree in some cases – but even those `mothers’ sooner or later (much later) end up plagued by deeper emotions of doubt, regrets and even long for another chance to have a baby. Am not writing this from an abstract point. Sadly,  I do know of several women-  who have gone through such circumstances in their lives. And always, my sympathies are with them.

Ganaga Devi drowning her babies.    Art (c) Mani Navasothy 2013. Visit www.ArtofMani.co.uk
Ganaga Devi drowning her babies.

The gift of new life is precious – and means everything to some people.   Not everyone would see it that …when a couple conceive a baby, a Soul is choosing to be born through them!     I can  speak from a point of view of a person who has always wanted children.   So anyone speaking of miscarriages, or worse, abortions, actually fills me with sadness – for the loss of new human life!  I also feel the same sadness when I hear of thousands of children dying of starvation or illnesses  every day – in other parts of the world! So many potentials for life and souls are lost. 😦

So why this blog ? and what is the purpose of it?

Few days ago I began a 3-day major ritual for Shivarathri  (Night of Lord Shiva).  Some deeply relevant thought have surfaced …concerning these.   Call it `By Divine Order’ –  the story of  Ganga Devi  (Hindu river Goddess) drowning her new born babies ..popped into mind.  I had read about it some 3 decades ago.  On contemplating, I feel that Hindu story may be of some  value and  comfort …to many tormented parents who had had the misfortune of suffering a miscarriage …or worse gone down the helpless route of aborting their foetus. .. (why they did it ..pales, in comparison to  how they live with that knowledge for years afterwards!)    This blog is for them.

Story of Ganga Devi (River Deity) drowning her new born Babies

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It is the beginning of one of the Hindu epics – Mahabharatham (Tamil word translates as “Great Epic”). In ancient times, a King called Santhanu Maharaja, was walking past a river one day when he encountered a nubile and very beautiful lady. He fell in love instantly and sought after her with much praise and adoration. She in term agreed to become his wife, but made a single condition – that  Santhanu (King) or anyone should never ever ask who she is, where she comes from, or question her deed – how ever good or bad those deeds seem to be. And if anyone should do so, she will immediately leave the marriage. King Santahnu agreed, and they were soon married. They lived happily for a while.
Soon the lady fell pregnant, and gave birth to a baby boy. The King was over joyed – but to his great horror, the lady took her new born baby to the river and instantly drowned the baby! The King was shocked and heart-broken but remembered his promise, and said nothing, as his wife smiled past him.

tamesa-sepent-smShe again fell pregnant, and she once more drowned her 2nd new born child. King remembered his promise and held back, with pain in his heart. This happened many more times in subsequent years.. all in all 7 new born babies were drowned at birth.

The moment came when the 8th  baby was born, and the lady began to take the baby to the river.  King Santhanu could bare the atrocity and pain no more, and stopped is wife, and demanded why she would do such a horrible thing to her own new born child?!   She in term revealed that she is none other than the divine river goddess Ganga herself, whom gods and men worship and adore in all the worlds. She said she would not drown the 8th baby, but will nurture him and will bring him to the King when the time comes. She then vanished with the child.

When the child was grown to his teen years, Ganga Devi brought his to the boy’s father, and vanished once more.

This child – Deva Virathan – grew up and became known as `Bishmar’ -meaning one who had performed an unbelievable act. (That is another story for another blog post).  He also became the great `grandfather’ (not directly as he had no children) to the Pandavars (5 bothers) & Gowrawars  (100 brothers) who ended up fighting the great war (which became known as `Mahabharatham’).

Story of the 8 Vashus and their curse 

Bishmar is one of the 8 souls of a certain group of ascended beings calls the Vashus.

One day all 8 Vashus and their wives were playing and having a picnic,when one of their wives saw a very beautiful Cow grazing. She wanted her husband to capture that Cow and bring it to her. The Cow (Nanthni) belonged to a great and powerful sage (Holly guru) called Vashishtar. And people generally did not intervene or disturb such sages. It has been known that sages spend most of their times in spiritual work and meditation, and thus naturally accrue powers, and if harmed or insulted, have a tendency to curse the offenders.
The wife of one Vasu kept insisting that she wanted the Cow, so eventually her husband and his 7 fellow Vasus caught the cow and took it home.  When the sage returned and found out what had happened, he immediately cursed the offending Vasus to be born on earth (which is seen as a punishment for ascended beings!)   The 8 Vasus ran to the sage and begged for forgiveness. The sage softened his curse and said the 7 who aided will have short lives on Earth and return, but the one who caught the Cow must pay for his bigger role in the crime, and must live a longer time on Earth.

The 8 Vasus then approached Ganga Devi (river Goddess of the sacred river Ganges), and asked her to be their `earthly mother’ and on being born, to kill them so that they may only live a very short time on Earth. She agreed.

And so it was she – who met the King Santhanu  and married him and bore his sons. And on each child being born

(one of the souls of the 7 Vasus), she drowned them, so that their soul may immediately be set free from long and troubled life on Earth, and return to their Ascended planes! The 8th Son (soul of the Vasu wh had stolen the cow) was not killed on birth (by the natural and fated intervention of the King). he became a great warrior Bishmar, and lived to see many of his bothers and their descendants (who ended up in war against one another).

Hindu sage

Hindu principle of Souls & Karma

Karma – the concept of  `values’ that we acquire for our good and bad deeds – is known by many people.    Hindus strongly believe that those with good or bad karma are born on Earth, again ad again.. and those who commit bad deeds accumulate further bad karma, and suffer in other future lives. The purpose of Souls (Hindu belief) is to work to remove the bad karma, so that the cycle of birth, death and reincarnation stops, and the Soul can ascend and stay in divine realms (called Deva Loka).

It can therefore be seen, if only as a comfort, that any child that has a short life on Earth – be it after being born, or before even being born (as in the case of miscarriage or even abortion) is a Soul that has somehow been fated and blessed to have escaped the life on Earth.

This is the only `comfort’ that any mother-to-be can take, if she has suffered a miscarriage, or has had the misfortune to have gone through an abortion.

I do agree that Karma and the cyclic journey of the reincarnating Souls is a belief system specific to Hindus and some other religions, and that rest of the people of our World do not have to adopt it. But the concepts of Karma, (more than just a passing joking or talking point in modern society), can help give some people spiritual focus, and even explain some circumstances in their lives, and offer a certain amount of comfort. Breaking the karmic cycle is achievable by all – a strong belief in Deity, pure and genuine spiritual work and honourable aspirations…charity, good deeds..and good living.. serving deities and fellow people …can all lead to One’s past bad Karma being balanced with `good Kama’ .

A final word  (warning) on this matter of Ganga’s story and miscarriages.   Though it gives us an explanation as to why some souls have a short (fated) lifespan on our world, it is by no means an option for any pregnant mother to abort her child, purely for the sake of `saving the soul from earthly life’.  No! In fact, such willing act…collects Bad Karma, and is not helpful – by whatever clever argument the parent may offer.

If you are interested in these matters, you  should dedicate much time learning hindu mythologies  and philosophies in their own contexts- and strive to live with any such learnt  ideals. And that is not easy!!

-Mani Navasothy

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Comments welcome:  This post is written as a helpful and comforting spiritual feature.  I very much like to hear your own comments on these very sensitive topics.     (I encourage only genuine and respectful dialogue.. If your thoughts are private, please indicate that, and I will not publish your comments.  

Helpful websites / organisations

 The Miscarriage Association 

Child Bereavement help

Related Spiritual Thoughts

Childhood ideals & the Warrior codes in Hindu myths

What is to happen? (Krishna’s message on a Warrior’s Duty) 

Flames of Shiva – Shivarathri Altar & suggested magical works

Personal Shivarathri altar 10march2013
Personal Shivarathri altar

Maha Shivarathri (Shiva’s night) is one of the sacred Hindu religious days.

Shivarathri nights for coming years:  

  • Friday 24th February 2017;
  • Tuesday 13th February 2018;
  • Monday 4th March 2019;
  • Friday 21st February 2020

Although I did not stay awake all night in prayers and worship, I began magical workings the night before on my altar – and continued some personal prayers and a sacred ritual last night (midnight onwards). Am writing this with the hope that reading about it may give some of you spiritual inspiration – to either do similar ceremonies, or create your own rituals.

Though I have lived in London for over 25 years, my first 15 years of childhood & teen life was in Sri Lanka, where I had attended hundreds of temples and watched or participated in numerous Hindu rituals, as well as read and self-taught all of the Hindu mythologies and Stories (Puranams).  It is those that continue to give me my core values – of spirituality, upon which many layers of Western magical practices have been built on in the past 25 years.

(Before starting this work, You may wish to read extensively about Shivarathri and Shiva- from my previous blog post on Shivarathri here).

The following is a set of suggestions stemming from my own hindu rituals.

Preparing the Candle:

My work began with purchasing a brand new tall Pillar (white) candle. The one I got is a 70 hour candle. I then took it to the local Temple, where (in London) Shivarahri ceremonies were going on already. Hindus are used to lighting lamps, so am sure the devotees would have been a bit perplexed, so I had the candle in a ruck sack and carried it mindfully on my back, as I prayed and circled the temple’s inner altar 3 times. The purpose of taking the candle to the temples is to consecrate it and bless it with the pure and divine energies.

If you are unable to do this, you can alternatively – take the candle to a place of nature that is untainted and pure.. and have it there, for a short while and ask natural energies and divine forces to bless it. I would advise that you do NOT do any complicated rituals of blessing this candle. Do not inscribe any complex symbols either. All that is needed is true simplicity and natural or divine energy by way of it’s own presence.

Shivarathri -Candles(c) Mani N'13
Shivarathri -Candles
(c) Mani N’13

Altar preparations

Once the Candle has been blessed and brought home to your intended Altar, the altar itself needs preparing. Now I have in the past made a huge fuss about getting the altar perfectly right, and purifying it etc. But this time whatever the state your altar is does not matter. It is every day life and ways of living that (may) have brought about a certain way your altar looks (dusty? cluttered with magical items unused? objects that  detract instead of adding positive energy? etc).   As we are about to deal with Shiva – an important deity who – as long as you honour and worship him whole heartedly – forgives and blesses  you,.., you need only make a heartfelt genuine effort and just carry out this ritual.. Purity of intention is more important (for this and any ritual, in fact).

Tidy the altar and make space for the candle. If you have a Shiva statue or art work, place that in a central or prominent position. If you have any long `phallic’ style crystals that can `stand up’ – do place them (or a main one) on the altar.   This will come to represent the `Shivalingham’ – which in fact is a representative of the sacred union of the Phallus and the Yoni (it is found in most Hindu temple altars!)   Do wash the crystal beorehand and place on altar.

Flowers, a glass of water, small glass of milk, honey, fruits are also appropriate to have. Incense sticks and of course small tea-light candles are great additions…and a small bell, if you have one.

Ceremony of Shiva’s Flame

Remember the mantra `Om Shivaya Nama’  or the variation, `Om Nama Shivaya’.   This is something you can chant either out loud, while ringing the bell at certain points. Or you may chant the mantra inwardly and quietly (as I did last night, as other people in the house were sleeping by midnight!). Again, true worship and devotion with purity of such intent carries the ritual more so than the actual steps!   (Remember the story of the King and the Devotee whop both built a temple each for Shiva – one a large temple and other an astral temple in the mind, to which Shiva gave impirtance…It is one of the Hindu religious stories (Puranams))  It is mentioned in detail in my other Shivarathri blog.

Light the central candle as you chant the mantra, while visualising the great flame that is Shiva. Recall the story of the great flame, that has no beginning or end, no top or bottom, which Lord Brahma and Lord Vishnu attempted to discover).

You may wish to light additional small tea-light candles around the central candle.

Be seated in front of your altar ( dark room is best), and stay in a meditative state, while chanting Shiva’s mantra. You  may wish to offer flowers to the candle, and or the Shiva statue (or picture), by peeling petals and gently showering the statue / artwork with them.   If your statue is water-proof, and is prepared to stand in a water proof dish or deeper container, you may also wish to perform an `Abishekam’ (ritual bathing) – with water,milk, honey etc [I shall write about this another time, in detail].

There are a number of visualisations and divine aspects you can focus on while in meditative state

  • The cosmic dance  of Shiva – where he is all creation (planets, stars, galaxies) – He Destroys and re-creates all things
  • The Great Flame of Shiva – that is infinite and has no ends and stretches through all of space.
  • The Shivalingham – a long phallic object that is embedded in the circular base that is the divine Yoni (female Vulva symbol)

During the Flame meditation, you may wish to hold the candle by both hands in front of you – at just below Chest level, so that the candle flame itself is on level with your Solar Plexis Chakra (the point at which on chest area ribs join – the mystical place where Sun energy is said to reside). You may carefully try to imbue your Solar Plexis chakra with the Shiva-Candle-Flame, while chanting Shiva mantra, as a way of communing with Shiva’s flame.  (Warning: should this become uncomfortable – a sit may if you have never done t before – use a large Crystal or stone or some soil or salt in your hands, to ground that energy, and – try the exercise another time, gently!).

It is advisable to stay in the chanting & meditative state for a long period – That is the very nature of this Ceremony  – prayer, worship and simple but pure communing with Lord Shiva.

What to pray for

  • The removal of bad or negative Karma that your life has accumulated.
  • The release from the eternal loop of birth, death, reincarnation, and so on..
  • Spiritual purity (aspiration of it).
  • Healing of old emotional wounds.
  • Well-being of close families and those you care deeply for.

Magical work

You may wish, after the prayer / meditative session has reached a conclusion, to hold the central candle in hands (raise slightly so the flame is at heart-level now), and radiate divine energy, healing & unconditional love ..to other people in your life. Do not complicate this stage. Just send pure light & love. Do not try to be specific.

-Mani Navasothy

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Shivarathri nights for coming years:  

  • Friday 24th February 2017;
  • Tuesday 13th February 2018;
  • Monday 4th March 2019;
  • Friday 21st February 2020

  Link:  Blog on  Maha Shivaratri (Shiva’s night) and the Worship of Hindu God Shiva

 

Maha Shivaratri (Shiva’s night) and the Worship of Hindu God Shiva

Lord Shiva Cosmic Dancer (Hind God of creation and destruction)   Art -ManiN'13
Lord Shiva Cosmic Dancer (Hind God of creation and destruction) Art -Mani Navasothy’13

Maha Shiva Ratri  is the `Great Night of Shiva’  – when Hindu devotees of the God Shiva spend a whole night in total worship and prayers of Shiva – either in their homes or local temples.  

Shivarathri nights for coming years:  

  • Friday 24th February 2017;
  • Tuesday 13th February 2018;
  • Monday 4th March 2019;
  • Friday 21st February 2020

 

NEW: Click here to read about `Flames of Shiva Ceremony that you can perform)

 

 

Shiva:  Tribal God of the Dance

Shiva is a god with a 3rd eye on his forehead – which he keeps closed, as the opening of it can bring forth divine flames which no one can bear!   Shiva’s son Murugan (Karthigeyan) is said  to have been born of the flames that came from Shiva’s 3rd eye!)

Shiva wears a serpent around his neck, a Crescent moon on his hair, and the river Ganga  flows from her heavenly origins down to Shiva’s head, and after being slowed down, flows down to Earthly realms. Shiva is often seen to be meditating – on mountain realms, or in Crematoriums and graveyards.  He has a tribal look, and only wears a Tiger-skin cloth (or deer skin).  He holds in his hands a Trident (powerful weapon that targets any evil), and in his other hand carries a Drum..which he drums to reach a trance state in his dance!

Shiva taking on Karma

The day before (9th Match) is Pradosham, when Shiva is said to have taken in the poison of a great serpent and swallowed it so that it would not harm the worlds!   (This symbolises the bad Karma).

People often pray to Shiva to ask divine help in breaking the karmic cycle or birth, death and soul’s reincarnation..   It is said that the worship and devotion to  Hindu God Shiva enables a person  to convert the negative karma from One’s life into positive energy – as Shiva is the remover of sin and and Lord or mercy. Mere words or worship are not always enough, as it has been known through mythological and religious stories – that Shiva has come in many disguises and incarnations and tested his worshipers …at times to extreme breaking points.. and revealed himself at the 11th hour (so to speak), before a crisis occurs, and rewarding his worshipers.

Tales of Shiva’s appearances to his devotees

In one story, Shiva came in the guise of a man being a guest at a family man who’s good deed and genuine honour was well known. In his guise, Shiva asked the man to `kill his only son, cook him and serve it as a meal.. The Host (worshiper) though extremely distraught was willing to do so.. as it is a rule in Hindu Vedas (sacred writings) that providing food for guests is a great thing in itself. Shiva, once satisfied, not only brought back the life of the child, but blessed his worshiper and family. This is an extreme story.

Another one tells of a King building a great Temple for Shiva and setting a date for the Temple Consecration, for which he had prayed Lord Shiva to appear. Shiva refused because he had already agreed to attend another even greater temple in another part of the country. The King was so puzzled but chose to attend the other Temple Consecration, and went to the said part in search of a person. It turned out that the said man was – though firm devotee of Shiva- very poor and had been building  `an astral temple’ in his mind in regular meditations…and it was that Temple consecration which Shiva had chosen to attend.

A third story involves a Spider who was a devotee of Lord Shiva. In a forest, there existed a statue (Shivalingham) of Shiva. The dried leaves of nearby trees and other dirt often fell on the statue. So the Spider persisted daily and kept weaving webs above the statue, to create cover so that leaves and dirt will not fall on the statue. It is said that Lord Shiva appeared one day and blessed the Spider and gave it Moksha (ascension to divine  realm at Shiva’s place).

The Hindu teachings highlight 64 of such specific stories of Shiva’s devotees – (not all human).

Dance of Destruction 

Maha Shivratri falls on the 14th day of the dark half of ‘Margasirsa’ (February-March). The ceremonies take place  at night.  Some teachings say this  festival is observed in honour of Lord Shiva’s marriage to Parvathi (Goddess Shakthi in one of her incarnations).   On this festival people worship ‘Shiva – the Destroyer’. This night marks the night when Lord Shiva danced the ‘Tandav’- a cosmic dance of destruction. In the hindu stories, Parvati  was said to have died, and pining for her and out of extreme sadness and anger, Lord Shiva began the dance of Destruction that shook the Cosmos and all of creation. (Parvati was then incarnated on earth as a King’s daughter, and Shiva eventually married her and brought her back to Kailasa  – his dwelling on Mount Himalaya).  [ Gods and Goddesses often leave their divine realms and incarnate on Earth in human form, and eventually return ].

Story of the Great Flame (Shiva’s night)

The Story of Maha Shivarathri that I am familiar with from my childhood involves the divine Male Triplicity –  Lord Brahma (creator), Lord Vishnu (Protetor) and Lord Shiva (Destroyer and Re-creator).    The story states that an argument arose between Brahma & Vishnu ..as to which of the two is the greatest God. They could not settle the matter, so they approached Lord Shiva. Shiva smiled mischievously, and offered a competition. Shiva took up form as a large flame, and he suggested that whomever finds the end of the flame first shall be named the greatest God (Brahma or Vishnu).    Brahma took up form as a Swan and flew upwards, higher and higher, in search of the top of the flame.  Vishnu took up form as a Wild Boar, and dug deeper and deeper into the ground, in search of the bottom of the flame.  After a lot of effort, both Brahma (Swan) and Vishnu (Boar) gave up..  and it was then that realisation struck them both.

Both came to stand defeated, humble in front of the great Flame that is Lord Shiva, and praised him, as the greatest of all, as his was a form without beginning or ending. Shiva returned to hims normal form.

Shiva Rathree is said to be the night ..when this great search had taken place!

What happens on Shiva Rathri

Hindus observe a strict fast on this day and  keep vigil all night. The Shiva Lingam  ( phalic symbol representing Shiva’s union with Sakthi) is worshipped throughout the night by Abishekam (ritual washing  with milk, curd, honey, rose water, fruit mix, and so on).  Devotees continue to chant the sacred mantra “Om Namah Shivaya” .   Hymns in praise of Lord Shiva are sung with great devotion.

Shiva’s Mantra

It is said that  those who utters the names of Shiva during Shivratri, with perfect devotion and concentration, is freed from all sins, and will reach Kailasha –  the abode of Shiva.  Such devotees are liberated from the wheel of births and deaths.

What you can do on Shivarathri

Anyone interested in the spiritual work on this special night can worship Shiva in their own ways. Lord Shiva sees, hears and knows all.

  • Light  a Lamp or Candle on Shivarathri ..and keep a vigil all night.
  • Fast for a day and night – if possible. Or consume only milk and fruits. Or just milk-rice.
  • Do not eat any meat (if you must eat). Do not consume any drugs or alcohol.
  • Keep your mind pure of distractions – as hard a sthis may be (doing so for a whole night can be hard!)
  • If possible, create an altar in a clean and sacred place. Light incense. Decorate with flowers.  Have a glass of water or milk on the altar, as well as a Shivalingham or Shiva statue (or picture).
  • Cleanse the altar by ringing a bell over it a few times. You may also show Arthi (camphor blocks that are lit and burnt and wafted over altar or any statues).
  • If known, sing chants or hindu hyms.
    Silent meditation and prayers are equally fine.
  • Chant `Om Shivaya Namaha’   – several times out loud, or softly in a meditative state.
  • Visualise Lord Shiva as a cosmic force – the light of every star and galaxies (Old stars explode and die that their plasma and dust may coalesce  and form new Stars and planets).

Bright Stellar Blessings

-Manivannan Navasothy

ps. my late father’s name – Navasothy -is  that of Lord Shiva ..and means `Nine Flames’  🙂

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